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Nonetheless it should be mentioned:
Don’t date Geek Babes.
That’s appropriate. We went there.
OK, I am able to already discover the fingertips clicking as you compose me pissed off emails and then click the “back” switch on your own web browser, but stay with myself here, I swear I’m heading somewhere using this also it’s maybe not in which you thought.
Geek lifestyle is actually a reactionary bundle of self-contradictions. Because nerds and geeks are frequently ostracized
you wind up with a culture that insists that “ostraciziation are ZOMGEVILZ.” Yet, concurrently, therefore identical lifestyle is one of the most insular you could find; non-geeks tend to be derisively called “mundanes”; any person criticizing a nerd was “just like those jocks/cheerleaders/bitchy ladies that produced high-school hell for everyone”. Geeks foster and sustain the idea that nerds as a collective whole much better, a lot more ethical, most open-minded and much more socially taking individuals. This propensity towards withdrawing into by themselves offers into all aspects of their schedules. it is infamously hard to draw a geek beyond their rut; worldwide detests and worries him, therefore why should he have actually anything to carry out making use of the globe outside of the tiny piece that prices him. However, geeks, as with any some other animals, crave prefer, recognition, intimacy and companionship. At the same time but they fear the getting rejected from the opposite sex. Geeks have actually an unfortunate tendency to feel badly socialized away from their equal team, making locating a relationship even more complicated. Ladies are already stimulating and intimidating items of desire in geek society; attempting to interact socially using them is actually venturing in to true terra incognita so there feel dragons. Enter the cult of the nerd woman.
Who’s The Nerd Female?
It’s well worth keeping in mind the nerd female is different from a female that is a technical.The technical lady could be the culmination of geek fancy. She’s the main one using the Triforce inked on a single wrist as well as the 1-Up mushroom on the other. She’s the main one the thick-framed cat-eye spectacles together with purple bobbed locks. She’s wear a Can’t prevent The indication tee, knee-length clothes, a Hogwarts sweater (Gryffindor quarters, obviously), a pleated mini-skirt and white Chuck Taylors with Pac-Man hand painted onto them. She’s the main one toting all over Naruto-branded messenger bag with a copies of Watchmen, Blankets and give Morrison’s run using brand-new X-Men sticking out the most effective. She’s waiting in line for any midnight release for Halo 4 and Kingdom Hearts Posterior Aphasia. She’s clutzy in an endearing way, she wants you to protect their and yet she still desires to shag the brains on. She’s the live personification of a checklist of desirable qualities, all crammed into one person. And she just is out there in geeks’ heads.
She’s gorgeous. She’s Best She’s A Convenient Reason.
You notice, geeks worry getting rejected. It’s not really surprising; researchers have lately unearthed that social rejection triggers alike receptors inside head that physical harm really does. Rejection virtually hurts. What’s considerably, once you placed yourself and your cardiovascular system from the range the lady rejecting you can easily feel a judgement of all 
things about you. Once you mix this feeling of somebody doubt exactly what you will be aided by the personal ostracism and humiliation that geeks has usually experienced, it’s lightweight question that geeks is capable of turning this fear of rejection into a full-blown phobia. As soon as you’re definitely terrified of women, whenever your cardiovascular system starts to pound plus human body begins to move at very considered wanting to query a lady out on a date… well, what better method to avoid actually ever being forced to face that circumstance could there be than to create a collection of faculties and identity quirks that come together therefore hardly ever about feel virtually non-existant? Now you’re never apprehensive with the thought of having to approach people, you’re only discriminating. You have got criteria. You don’t need any old woman, you prefer a person who is the owner of a modded Sega Saturn which performs the Lunar RPGs from inside the original Japanese! Who needs to fear lady once the one you are really actually awaiting isn’t planning arrive in the comical publication shop in a few days anyway?